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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

13.06.2025 23:59

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

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I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

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Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

This is how, and why children get BPD.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

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We were not on the streets..

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

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It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

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But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I have no regrets .

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Why am I not getting any atheists to debate with? Are they scared?

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Im dying but, im not bitter.

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I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

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I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

How do you stop your balls from sweating?

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

So, i spoilt her more .

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But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

He resisted the act ,that day.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

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We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

I waited trembling.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I was 9 years of age.

Why did i forgive my father ?

Would this be the day?

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Who then, do I blame.?

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

I don,t even have a pension.

I couldn’t, believe it.

We all went to grammer schools

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

So whats the point in blame.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

When she asked me how she looked .

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

My family never makes their pension either.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Put me off passion for life!!

This is soul school!.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

She married twice! .

Ive learnt so much.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I said to her

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

Comes on , in middle age.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

He knew the spot.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

She wouldn,t have been !

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

And i lived it daily.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I write beautiful poetry .

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

It was going to be , some day.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I was scared of men, in general

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

I never cut or harmed myself..

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

What did i know ?

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

Was to survive, this bastard.

I was seconnd youngest,

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

My life is so biszare .

(And it was in our own minds.)

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Im still living with it.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

As i do to all so called friends.?

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

I will be 64.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Especially a lifetime of it.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I could never make a relationship work though!

I was very sick at this time too.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

But, we were locked up after school.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

All the time i was locked up.

But it wasn’t much.

One cannot live in the past .

She was in good health!

I know ,a lot about trauma.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I think the readers, may guess!

She found it foreign!.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

But ive been too sick for many years..

She loved him until the end.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.