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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 04:41

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

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The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

I couldn’t, believe it.

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And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I don,t even have a pension.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

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He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

I never cut or harmed myself..

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

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One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

She wouldn,t have been !

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Especially a lifetime of it.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Why did i forgive my father ?

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Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

What ended your relationship with your best friend?

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

They are buried together, in the same grave..

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Im still living with it.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

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The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

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On the 31st of Jan this month .

We all went to grammer schools

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

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Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

But it wasn’t much.

She was in good health!

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

I was seconnd youngest,

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

I will be 64.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

So whats the point in blame.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

And who doesn’t know suffering?

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

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I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

He knew the spot.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

So, i spoilt her more .

I think the readers, may guess!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

I waited trembling.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

We were not on the streets..

My mum and dad in the seventies!

But, we were locked up after school.

Who then, do I blame.?

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I could never make a relationship work though!

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

I write beautiful poetry .

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

It was going to be , some day.

One cannot live in the past .

All the time i was locked up.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

He resisted the act ,that day.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Put me off passion for life!!

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

I was 9 years of age.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

I was scared of men, in general

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

She found it foreign!.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

My life is so biszare .

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

She loved him until the end.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

I was very sick at this time too.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

She married twice! .

Ive learnt so much.

Comes on , in middle age.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

This is how, and why children get BPD.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

But ive been too sick for many years..

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

What did i know ?

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

I have no regrets .

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

I know ,a lot about trauma.

My family never makes their pension either.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Was to survive, this bastard.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

I said to her

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

When she asked me how she looked .

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

Would this be the day?

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

This is soul school!.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

As i do to all so called friends.?

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

And i lived it daily.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

(And it was in our own minds.)

I was writing from the time i was a small child.